

This community has grown to support a companion podcast! I’m so excited to now give you the Becoming Her, Again Podcast! You can find it on Apple, Spotify and anywhere you listen to podcasts. 🤗💕
Feeling lost… overwhelmed… emotionally exhausted?
I understand, my friend. I’ve walked through the heartbreak of divorce too — and created this space to help women heal, rebuild and know they are not alone.
Here you’ll find encouragement, honest conversations, free resources and a podcast created for women learning how to live again after everything changed.
Take a minute to get to know me and why I created this podcast just for you.
My passion is to ensure you get the guidance to get you started on your way to a beautiful life awaiting you! Believe me, I know it’s hard to see now, but you can build a very happy and fulfilling life. If I did it, so can you! I want to help you on this journey, my friend. You are not alone.

Healing after divorce can leave you questioning your worth. Read this personal letter for hope, encouragement, and divorce help as you rebuild … Divorce: A Letter to the Woman Who Forgot What She’s Worth
No one really prepares you for this part. You expect the hard conversations. You expect the paperwork. You expect the stress of starting over. But what you…
Healing after divorce can leave you questioning your worth. Read this personal letter for hope, encouragement, and divorce help as you rebuild confidence while surviving…
After divorce, almost everyone tells you the same thing: “Do something for yourself.” “Treat yourself.” “Focus on you now.” Your therapist might say it. Your…
There is a particular kind of quiet that comes after divorce. It’s not just the absence of a person — it’s the absence of who…

Hi, I’m Carol — and Living in the Middle is my love letter to the freedom, joy, and second chances that come when the nest gets quiet and the noise of who we were starts to fade.
At 42, I found myself standing in the middle of a life I didn’t recognize. After 16 years of marriage, I walked away from the only version of “forever” I’d ever known. I was the first in my family to get divorced — no guide, no support group, and no roadmap to healing.
I didn’t just feel broken. I felt invisible. Numb. Lost. I couldn’t eat. I couldn’t rest. I was surviving — not living. I didn’t know where to begin.
But eventually, one small step at a time… I did begin.
I slowly started putting the pieces of myself back together — and somewhere along the way, I started liking the woman I was becoming. I began chasing a life that felt like mine again.
Now, more than a decade later, I’ve built a life I love — and I’m still growing. Still dreaming. Still healing. Still learning to thrive in this beautiful “middle” season of life.
This space is for every woman who’s ever asked, “Now what?”
If you’re navigating a new chapter — after divorce, after raising children, after heartbreak, after loss — you’re not alone. You are not starting over. You’re just starting next.
Let’s do it together.
Welcome to the middle. 💛